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And the interactive nature of online chatting/sex adds a level of uncertainty and unpredictability that can be exhilarating for people who crave such stimulation (see why people cheat).Moreover, most people dismiss their online activities as NOT being real—it is like a sexual fantasy, it doesn’t have much consequence—because one can walk away from it or turn it off—unlike a traditional affair where there has been physical contact and a person who actually exists in one’s social network.I just don’t know how to handle this whole thing, I love him dearly and it hurts very badly...He’s got so many good qualities and in my heart I feel as though he truly loves me, would never hurt me, but-I know I’ve babbled, I just wanted to make sure everything was clear. On one hand, your boyfriend has been turning to other women for sexual gratification—leaving you feeling hurt, betrayed and rejected.I’ve spent more and more time here for the past 6 months, since we’ve got engaged, so I’ve used his computer a lot more as well.I was messing around one day and found a ton of pornography on it.In these types of situations, it is common for people to offer quick solutions, but easy solutions typically don’t work long term (see once a cheater).
We’d still see each other every weekend, sometimes more.
He had a roommate and I just figured he used it to take pics of himself for the computer.
It bothered me because I didn’t really know, but I got over it and let it go.
And from your boyfriend’s perspective, on-line porn/chatting/sex can be very difficult to stop.
The experience can be extremely rewarding—exciting, stimulating and fun.
Initially we had web cams, I got rid of mine, he still had his and just put it away a couple months ago (5).