From dating to marriage
Many times a good love is rushed and ends up burning the two. Sufficiently know the person before committing, know what you are getting yourself into. Talk more than “I love you”, do more than fancy dates.See if you are on the same page, if your idea of what love, sex, marriage, parenthood, responsibility and life is similar. If both your hearts are well-aligned and love is growing, commit and stop living like a single person. Get to each other’s inner secrets, talk about issues, life, be transparent. Notice any red flags and act, pay attention to your spirit.Not because you doubt your lover, but because your garden is delicate and should be protected from the little foxes that come to destroy your young love. Introduce each other to your family and friends, let each other in your daily life.Family and friends will cover you and look out for you. Yes, you are so in love but don’t forget to build you. Go on, advance your career, go to school, start your business, be the best you. It can make you stay in a relationship that is dead or wrong.I definitely do not expect everyone to agree with me.
And because we misunderstand and misuse dating, we end up making more and greater mistakes in our search for love.
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The common trends in dating today are more likely to prepare you to get divorced than to enjoy and persevere in marriage.
God prepares us for marriage in a thousand other ways that are not spring-loaded with the risks, obstacles, and difficulties of dating.
For example, far better than experimenting with romance and intimacy for ourselves would be to spend lots of time with marriages we respect and admire.
This will help you to learn how to relate with someone of the opposite sex. This will also make sure you choose well having known many because a lover starts off as a friend.